Tips, If you are feeling too tired to make love

Coffee and wine

A dose of caffeine after dinner can provide the energy you need to make lovemaking livelier (or, quite honestly, to make you feel up to it at all). However, don’t over do it or you will feel all wired and jittery rather than sexy. A drink can also be a sexual trigger but again, drink in moderation or else instead of sex you’ll end up having a bad night and a hang over the next day.

Have an exciting evening

When after a long day you get back home don’t just jump into the couch and park yourself in front of the television. This will only make you lazier and even put you to sleep. Instead think of ways to enliven your evening by doing something new. For example, you can have a special dessert for after dinner or play some poker (the flirty kind). This way your exciting evening will linger into a night of exciting love making.

Music

Nothing works better than music to get you in the mood. Play some sensual lounge music or whatever it is that turns you on.

Rewards

Another great way to beat fatigue and get action is to think of sex as a present that you and your partner deserve at the end of a hard day’s work. In fact, the motivation will probably get you to work better as well, so as to ensure you deserve your present. As tired as you may be, it is important that you create time in your schedule to enjoy a healthy sex life. Sex can also be a stress buster but don’t indulge only for that reason and learn to enjoy your sexuality.