Things men wish you KNEW ABOUT SEX

SO YOU think you’ve got men all figured out and all that, right? That their little heads are predominantly pre-occupied with a single all-consuming thought: SEX? They like it, they need it and they want it. (Sigh!) If only it were that simple. Chances are, you’re in the dark about the average Joe's list of truths. Well, after speaking to dozens of male reps, Rouge presents an easier guide to helping you understand where ‘they’ are coming from (please ladies, no pun intended!)

He’ll buy any fantasy about you Tying up, talking dirty, playing Archie and Veronica (whatever gets you going, girl!), just about anything will work for a man, especially if it comes from you. Breaking the association of women being chaste and all that excites the modern man much. So, given the power to charge his batteries at any time, use your fantasies to the fullest. Tell him eating leaves is your idea, and he might just do it!

Please don’t underrate yourself! It’s nice to have an old fashion sense of propriety and all that but please not in bed, huh?

Slow is better Put the popular ‘wham-bam’ theory in the bin and give the boys some credit. Most of the men I spoke to preferred a jog to the sprint...if you catch my drift. And actually if you come to think of it, only we can hasten or slow down the process, so why rush and waste, hmm?

It is possible to have too much of a good thing What gets his whistles off is this: Element of surprise. However, it’s important to remember that a new trick will only stay new for a couple of times. So don’t search for kinks all the time, as you might run out of ideas. Regular should work on most nights.

Sometimes, please lie Praising a man on the might of his manhood is akin to what candlelight dinners do for us. So even if it’s not the whole truth - go on, that little extra something will go a mile for you in the bedroom.

Desire can be lost and found If his ‘altitude’ dips suddenly, don’t freeze the act as that could cause grave damage. It's totally natural so just keep the contact alive and keep doing, and you’ll be back in action.

Laugh No, no, not at him, but with him, in bed! Unanimously, most of the men questioned found a woman laughing. It just shows that you are enjoying being with him, are enjoying him and what he is doing to you. And if for nothing, that it’s a great way of communicating.

He doesn’t understand your directions Don't stop in the middle of the act to draw a road map of your body, ‘cause he will simply not get there. Instead, take him there, preferably with your hands. And just lie back and enjoy then.