How to please your long distance lover ?

Ensure that whatever quantity of time you share is quality time too. Many people in long distance relationships make more of the distance between them than the things that brought them together in the first place. Even though there may be little or nothing they can do about the distance, they spend an inordinate amount of time cribbing about the fact that they cannot be together “right now.” Take joy in your long distance relationship and make the most of it.

Be an active but not aggressive partner in the relationship. Patiently build the relationship without being passive. Despite all the advice to take their time getting to know someone, most romantics are hopelessly rash. This will not serve you or the relationship well.

You cannot be a good lover with out being an even better listener. Show your affection by also being very attentive, and in so doing place yourself in a better position to respond your partner’s actual thoughts, feelings, and concerns.

Work doubly hard at communicating well. Help minimize the number of misunderstandings between you and your long distance lover by always putting forth an extra effort to say what you mean and to see whether they understand the meaning of what you said. Ask about everything rather than assume anything.

Do not set yourself up for needless disappointment by placing your partner on a pedestal. Think highly of them, but not more than you ought.