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Men are full of surprises, and bedroom behavior is no exception. A Rouge guide

WHILE IT’S impossible to explain all male behaviour, here are five sex secrets that may help you understand — and get even closer to your guy.

He nurses the fear that he’ll let you down

Men are usually under tremendous pressure when it comes to sex. More and more women subscribe to pre-marital sex, and that means they are far more relaxed in the bedroom. Sexually satisfied role models, like Madonna and the Sex and the City sirens, encourage urban women to be open about their sexual desires and complaints. And suddenly, the pressure to perform is on, and he can’t help but feel like he has to please you.
Warning: If your man has a recurring problem of performance, he may start to blame you to protect his ego.
What you can do: Don’t take it personally or, worse, insult him. And never laugh! Just pretend that it is no great deal for you.

Men need validation to get their groove on

Sex has been associated with power for ages. To a man, having sex means that he can move a woman, that he’s virile, a provider and a lover. Basically, your guy wants to be a superhero, and he certainly wants you to see him in that light. When he satisfies you sexually, he feels like a superman. If you’re enjoying yourself, let him know that. He’ll love you for your compliments. Warning: No encouragement means no fun. Whether you are enjoying yourself or not, just be encouraging.
What you can do: A good rule of thumb: Don’t fake it but don’t fight it. Just look happy and satisfied and that would make your man feel great
Men don’t like waiting too long:
Women should never hold out to have sex simply because of the so-called rules of dating. He is more likely to commit if there is a sexual component to the relationship, and it is important for him to know that you find him sexually desirable.
Warning: If your guy is offended when you initiate sex, get rid of him. What you can do: We’re all sensual beings; we might as well be who we are. So don’t be afraid to make a move.

Men too are conscious about their bodies:

Let’s face it: Men may not worry about weight nearly as much as women do, but they do have their own image issues.
Warning: Most men are quite concerned about their general physical features. In other words, they are hoping for mood lighting in the bedroom just as much as women are.
What you can do: Help your man by telling him that you find him attractive and showing him affection.

Most men will not forgive a cheating girlfriend.

Men who have been betrayed, especially in the bedroom, are far less likely to forgive their partners than women in the same situation.
Warning: Men want loyalty at all cost. What you can do: Show your loyalty not only by remaining faithful in a committed relationship, but also by supporting your man in front of colleagues and friends and defending him when necessary. This allegiance will make your man more secure and will give him the motivation to let loose in the bedroom with you. Men want commitment just as much as women do; they just want it packaged differently.